Beliefs Inventory

Welcome to your Beliefs Inventory

It is important to me that others approve of me.

I hate to fail at anything

People who do wrong deserve what they get.

I usually accept what happens philosophically.

If a person wants to, s/he can be happy under almost any circumstances.

I have a fear of some things that often bothers me.

I usually put off important decisions.

Love Map

Welcome to your Love Map Assessment.  Please answers these questions about your relationship.

Name Email Phone Number

I can name my partner's best friend.

I can tell you what stresses my partner is currently facing.

I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating my partner lately.

I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams.

I am very familiar with my partner's religious beliefs and ideas.

I can tell you about my partner's basic philosophy of life.

I can list the relatives my partner likes the least.

I know my partner's favorite music.

I can list my partner's three favorite movies.

My spouse is familiar with my current stresses.

I know the three most special times in my partner's life.

I can tell you the most stressful thing that happened to my partner as a child.

I know my partner's major current worries.

My spouse knows who my friends are.

I know what my partner would want to do if he or she suddenly won the lottery.

I can tell you in detail my first impression of my partner.

Periodically I ask my partner about his or her world right now.

I feel that my partner knows me pretty well.

My spouse is familiar with my hopes and aspirations.

Sensualist System

Welcome to your Sensualist System.  Please pick the one that best fits you.

Name Email Phone Number

I am a lusty person.

I enjoy flirting.

I seek out sexually provocative situations.

I love the initial phases of courtship.

I really enjoy sex.

I enjoy giving physical pleasure to someone I am attracted to.

I am very sensual.

I enjoy having someone I am attracted to really excite me sexually.

I see sexual possibilities in many situations.

I get horny easily.

I often lust after someone I have just met.

I love being in love.

I masturbate often.

I have sexual fantasies at the strangest times.

I get sexual cravings that I just can't stop.

I enjoy many forms of physical sensuality.

I enjoy fondling, caressing, kissing, and cuddling.

Just being with someone attractive can really excite me.

At heart I am very horny.

I strongly value the excitement of making love.

I think about sex often every day.

My current life does not provide me with enough sexual stimulation.

In my current life, I don't get to have enough sensual experiences.

My lusty side is not really appreciated right now.

There is too much sexual distance in my life now.

I am more of a lover than anyone gets to see these days.

I need to find some more sensual experiences.

I wish that I had a life with more sexual passion.

I yearn for more romance in my life.

I feel sexual too much of the time.

There is not enough playful sex in my life right now.

I am overly involved in sexual thoughts and activities.

My life demands more sex of me than I want.

I dislike how much I have to think about sex.

It is uncomfortable to be as sexually turn on as I usually am.

Enduring Vulnerabilities

Welcome to your Enduring Vulnerabilities.  Please check all that you have experienced currently or in the past.

Name Email Phone Number

Not having enough control

Being excluded

Being controlled or coerced

Being unfairly treated

Being abused or humiliated

Not receiving affection or signs of affection

Not being accepted

Being betrayed

Being rejected

Being ignored or neglected

Being disrespected

Other injuries (describe)

Ongoing Conflicts

Welcome to your Ongoing Conflicts.

Name Email Phone Number

Identify the areas that are causing ongoing conflict.