Beliefs Inventory Welcome to your Beliefs Inventory It is important to me that others approve of me. Agree Disagree I hate to fail at anything Agree Disagree People who do wrong deserve what they get. Agree Disagree I usually accept what happens philosophically. Agree Disagree If a person wants to, s/he can be happy under almost any circumstances. Agree Disagree I have a fear of some things that often bothers me. Agree Disagree I usually put off important decisions. Agree Disagree Time's up
Love Map Welcome to your Love Map Assessment. Please answers these questions about your relationship. Name Email Phone Number I can name my partner's best friend. Yes No I can tell you what stresses my partner is currently facing. Yes No I know the names of some of the people who have been irritating my partner lately. Yes No I can tell you some of my partner's life dreams. Yes No I am very familiar with my partner's religious beliefs and ideas. Yes No I can tell you about my partner's basic philosophy of life. Yes No I can list the relatives my partner likes the least. Yes No I know my partner's favorite music. Yes No I can list my partner's three favorite movies. Yes No My spouse is familiar with my current stresses. Yes No I know the three most special times in my partner's life. Yes No I can tell you the most stressful thing that happened to my partner as a child. Yes No I know my partner's major current worries. Yes No My spouse knows who my friends are. Yes No I know what my partner would want to do if he or she suddenly won the lottery. Yes No I can tell you in detail my first impression of my partner. Yes No Periodically I ask my partner about his or her world right now. Yes No I feel that my partner knows me pretty well. Yes No My spouse is familiar with my hopes and aspirations. Yes No Time's up
Sensualist System Welcome to your Sensualist System. Please pick the one that best fits you. Name Email Phone Number I am a lusty person. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I enjoy flirting. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I seek out sexually provocative situations. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I love the initial phases of courtship. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I really enjoy sex. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I enjoy giving physical pleasure to someone I am attracted to. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I am very sensual. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I enjoy having someone I am attracted to really excite me sexually. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I see sexual possibilities in many situations. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I get horny easily. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I often lust after someone I have just met. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I love being in love. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I masturbate often. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I have sexual fantasies at the strangest times. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I get sexual cravings that I just can't stop. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I enjoy many forms of physical sensuality. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I enjoy fondling, caressing, kissing, and cuddling. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree Just being with someone attractive can really excite me. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree At heart I am very horny. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I strongly value the excitement of making love. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I think about sex often every day. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree My current life does not provide me with enough sexual stimulation. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree In my current life, I don't get to have enough sensual experiences. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree My lusty side is not really appreciated right now. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree There is too much sexual distance in my life now. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I am more of a lover than anyone gets to see these days. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I need to find some more sensual experiences. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I wish that I had a life with more sexual passion. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I yearn for more romance in my life. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I feel sexual too much of the time. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree There is not enough playful sex in my life right now. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I am overly involved in sexual thoughts and activities. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree My life demands more sex of me than I want. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree I dislike how much I have to think about sex. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree It is uncomfortable to be as sexually turn on as I usually am. Strongly agree Agree Neutral Disagree Strongly disagree Time's up
Enduring Vulnerabilities Welcome to your Enduring Vulnerabilities. Please check all that you have experienced currently or in the past. Name Email Phone Number Not having enough control Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Being excluded Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Being controlled or coerced Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being unfairly treated Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being abused or humiliated Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Not receiving affection or signs of affection Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Not being accepted Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being betrayed Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being rejected Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being ignored or neglected Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Being disrespected Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Other injuries (describe) Parents Siblings Lovers Peers Close friends Coworkers Children Extended family Time's up
Ongoing Conflicts Welcome to your Ongoing Conflicts. Name Email Phone Number Identify the areas that are causing ongoing conflict. Having a sense of freedom Experiencing peace Feeling close to nature Having a sense of power Exploring who I am Experiencing adventure Experiencing beauty Taking a spiritual journey Experiencing justice Having a sense of honor Integrating my current life with my past Experiencing healing Knowing my family Becoming all I can be Aging gracefully Exploring a creative side of myself Feeling competent Feeling truly loved Getting over past injuries Asking God for forgiveness Exploring an old part of myself that seems lost Getting over a personal obstacle Having a sense of order Being productive Having the time and place to "just be" Being able to truly relax Reflecting on my life Getting my priorities in order Finishing something important Growing physically Being able to compete and win Experiencing travel Having solitude Achieving atonement Building something important Ending a chapter in my life Saying good-bye to something Having what I need Time's up